Thank you for this comment. I didn’t see a story about Kevin, however, I appreciate you not making the jealous person feel like the bad guy. I am fearful that I am losing my wife of 14 years. We have a son and she just recently got a new promotion. She is spending far more time away from home,”out with clients”. She has gone out a descent amount prior to this position, but now it is more frequent(sometimes a few nights a week). She has seemed very distant from me. We have drifted into this relationship that just seems like we are roommates with a child(“ships passing in the night” as they say). I have found myself wondering where she is and who she is with. She goes out with clients(mostly men) after work hours and sometimes doesn’t come home until 10-12 at night. They are out drinking at bars. She has to get an Uber home sometimes. I don’t know what to do and I have found myself being jealous, angry, sad, and disgusted at myself for how I feel. I don’t want to feel this way(everything that you said except for how my friends look at me). I am at a loss. I have read a lot of things on line over the past few weeks of how to rewrite my marriage. I have been trying to tell her how much I love her with little notes and flowers and small gifts(thing I admit I have not been consistent enough with). I have told her how beautiful she is and how much I love. I think I may be coming across as clingy, now, and I may just being pushing her away more. We have gotten into some arguments lately. I have yelled, but I am not mean to her. I have threatened to leave, but then I apologized because I don’t want to do that. We have a child and I love her. I just want to know what is going on. Maybe I am over reacting. We have talked, but I don’t know if we are getting anywhere. I am just waiting to see if there is any change. I don’t like myself and I don’t like feeling this way. I am starting to hate myself. I can’t even work. I am sitting here writing to someone I don’t even know and this will probably end up on the internet for all to see. I feel like a loser.