Comments on: The 5 Qualities You Should Be Looking for in a Romantic Partner https://twx.atlantacounseling.com/blog/5-qualities-to-look-for-in-romantic-partner/ Client-Centric Counseling and Life Coaching Wed, 25 Apr 2018 11:51:35 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=5.5.8 By: Curtiss Robinson https://twx.atlantacounseling.com/blog/5-qualities-to-look-for-in-romantic-partner/#comment-104962 Wed, 25 Apr 2018 11:51:35 +0000 https://twx.atlantacounseling.com/?p=55931#comment-104962 Taylor
Loved your article. Might I add that relationships evolve with age. What once was a steamy romance might become a loving marriage with…less steam and more respect. A relationship that might start off as bumpy and unlikely can become very steady as confidence and trust develop. The opposite is also quite possible so one must wonder what really matters when it comes to the outcome we want. Here is my answer…

You.

You are the key ingredient. You have power over you. You have the ability to influence others but only you can put in the hard work. Only you can encourage growth in the relationship. Only you really have the power to affect the outcome.

If we wait for the right guy or gal to appear and expect the proverbial cake to rise with just the right ingredients then we will probably struggle in relationships or be alone.

Stop waiting on all the ingredients to magically fall into your “mixing bowl of love” and go out there and be the best you that you can be. That is the magic. That attracts the right guy.

PS- if you don’t want a drinker or smoker stop looking for love in bars…

If you don’t want a gamer or internet addict then perhaps look somewhere other than online.

Do what you love and that is where “your people” can be found.

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